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Following is an excerpt from Chapter Thirteen of
Sarmem, Sara's Memoirs, a book written by Sally Froese
Dyck of Leamington, ON 1998. Used with permission.
This book relates wonderful stories about
Mennonite life in the 1930s and 1940s. Available for $10 from the
Mennonite Heritage Centre Monday through Friday 9am - 12 noon.
Finally everyone got over the flu and whooping
cough and it was time to go to school. Margaret, Henry and Sara went
to the Albertville School. Albertville consisted of Gerneral Store
and a School. It was on the No. 18 highway between Leamington and
Kingsville. It was two weeks before the Christmas holidays when they
started school. The pupils had all exchanged names to buy a present
for Christmas. What was the teacher to do? It wouldn't be nice if
everyone exchanged gifts and the new pupils from Alberta got none.
She asked the class if there was anyone who would exchange the name
that they had and take a new one of the new pupil's names. Norman
Bodel was sitting across from Sara and his hand flew up in a real
big hurry.
"I will take Sara's name", he said. Sara was very
pleased. Norman was so kind. He must want her as a friend. It was
not until years later that she began to wonder if he had just been
trying to get rid of the original name that he had picked. He owned
a Sport Shop when he grew up and was still a kind and friendly man.
After Christmas Sara and Henry went to German
School at the Leamington Mennonite Church every Saturday until they
moved away. The people that lived in Kingsville would pick them up
and take them along. Sara wondered what German School was all about.
She remembered her first day at the church for Sunday School. She
had come into the basement for Sunday School all excited, for she
remembered how she had enjoyed learning about Jesus in Alberta. But,
as she sat down on the front bench all alone (Margaret had gone to
church and Henry was not about to sit with his sister, anyway, the
girls sat on one side and the boys on the other) she looked around
at the rest of the children. They were all staring at her. She
looked at herself to see if she had put something on wrong, but
didn't see anything the matter. The children continued to stare and
none talked to her. Finally a lady came over to her. She was
smiling!
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"What is your name?", she asked. Sara said
"Sara".
"Oh" she said, "How wonderful. That is my name
too. How old are you?" When Sara told her that she was eight, Miss
Wiens said, "You will be in my class and we will have two Saras. I'm
sure we will be good friends".
Sara Wiens was a wonderful lady. She had made
Sara comfortable when all the other children had only stared at her.
Sara enjoyed German School, but soon they moved
away from Albertville and it was not convenient for them to go for
awhile.
They moved to a large house on the Eighth
Concession in Mersea Township. There were Mennonite families living
here too. On one particular Sunday, the family was invited over to
the John Dick's for the afternoon. It was April 9, 1939, a day which
Sara was not about to forget. She was nine years old today. The
parents were visiting inside but the girls were playing outside. It
was a nice balmy spring day. Lena Dick came over to Sara and asked
her to come and play with the rest of them, but Sara was just too
shy. She just sat there, shaking her head. After much coaxing, Lena
finally gave up and went to play with the other girls. Sara spent
the rest of the afternoon watching them, but when they got home, she
realized that Ma had been watching her from the inside of the house.
"You have to learn to play with other children", she said. "You
can't spend the rest of your life by yourself". Pa had the switch
ready and the present for Sara was a spanking. Presents were not
given on birthdays, neither were cakes baked. But there was a silly
tradition. For every year that you were, your family was allowed to
pinch you or pull your ears. Sara received no pinches, but a good
lesson in how to win friends.
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